It’s always the small things that matter

It’s always the small things that matter.

JUST……LOVE!

RULES! RULES! RULES!!!!!!………………At this point, she’s over breaking the rules. She figures that he’s just not worth it or not man enough to show that he is. Even though she’s very much into him, she’s got to let go….it’s not pride, it’s called self-respect.

The hardest thing about falling in love is not being completely sure of the other person’s feelings. You don’t say you love a person until you know for sure that you really do. Until you’ve seen and experienced the shitty side of the other person and still don’t want to let go. Until you get to the point where looks don’t count .Until you value the other person more than yourself. Until you’re ready to go all out for the person, regardless of circumstance……when she does all of that, dude, don’t get it twisted, that girl loves you. When she’s doing all of that and you’re not giving anything in return, that’s selfish. And dude, she’s going to get tired along the line, and give it a break. She’s going to let go and someone else is going to come around and appreciate what you didn’t.

Truth is, no matter how many times you’ve been hurt, you’re going to have to let go of the past and be ready to trust again or remain single. When you feel something for a person, you’ve got to do more than just say, you’ve got to show it …. Actions do speak louder than words. Put in some effort, trust in your feelings. If it doesn’t work out, well, at least you tried. You gain some experience also. But don’t let an opportunity pass you by because of your ego or some heartbreak or fear of denial. Again, that’s just selfish. Forget about the rules, they are meant to be broken anyway. Rules do not determine whom you fall in love with, your heart does. So follow your heart and let your brain decide. Don’t take her show of affection for granted, you can do more than just ignore. If you love her, treat her right. You’ve got a brain, you can tell when she loves you back, trust in your instincts. When you’re sure that she does … don’t hold back. You’ve got everything to gain and nothing to lose …. No Regrets, Just Lessons.

**To all the ladies: You’re pretty enough to not be treated as second best. You’re your own kind of beautiful and a princess in your own right!**

** To the guys: don’t take a good woman for granted.**

PEACE OUT! LOVE HARD!!!!

WHAT FRIENDSHIP MEANS TO ME.

And that.Is my idea of what friendship should be like, basically.Friends are a very necessary part of our lifes. They are the family that we get to choose. Yes, you don’t let your friends choose you, you choose them. Letting someone choose you as a friend is peer pressure, not friendship.  Its very true that your friends pretty much show the kind of person you are. We click with people on different levels.  Some we constantly love to hang out with, some we secretly admire, and others..we simply just don’t connect with, so we ‘ignore’. Amongs all these group of people,  we form a bond of friendship . I like to describe it as ‘the unspoken bond’. The kind of bond where deep down, we know that no matter what, we can count on the people we share it with. That is friendship. It is being there for the other person when they need you most. It is setting aside your differences and misunderstandings just to be there for them. Not because you have to, but because you want to. That ‘want’ comes from ‘caring’ and caring, from ‘love’. It is where you learn to put the other persons feelings first. In friendship, there’s no selfishness. There’s no greed. There’s no jealousy. Only love. When we value the other person enough to not want to hurt them, even unintentionally. … When we are willing to forgive all wrongs and to trust even in deceit. …That is love. Friendship is formed from love. I am grateful to God for the people I can call friends. The true ones and the conditional ones. The quality of friendship, lies in how true you are to the other person.  Know who your real friends are…value them. Know who your conditional friends are…love them. Your friends can make or unmake you.
Your power lies only in being able to
choose them wisely.
               From the fault in our stars, a novel by John Green:” you don’t get to choose whether or not you get hurt in life, but you do have some say in who does.
    
   To my friends: I like my choices, I hope you like yours”.
     

TO LOVE♥♥ TO FRIENDSHIP♥♥
                          **Let Love Lead***

         
#count on me, Bruno Mars.
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Take Time To Smell The Roses.

Life…is a journey. Each one with his own path.Destination, is most often unknown. None of us have the same or a specific map, because we are all different, with different circumstances. Some people are slow goers..they prefer to trek, others are ‘no time wasters’..they would rather use a train or plane. Another group, not really mindful of pace or time..are comfortable in a car or bus . One thing that all humans have in common is that we are born and we will definitely die someday. Knowing this, I believe that people should take time to understand each other. Never be in a haste to conclude anything about anyone. Rather, take time to love. Love comes from understanding , respect and appreciation. Being all judgemental about people and things takes away the beauty from your eyes. Because instead of seeing the good, you’re always on the look out for the bad. Have you noticed how people who are so judgmental about everything seem to be the most boring and annoying people you have to put up with?…Life is not a race.People are bound to make mistakes. It doesn’t make them who they are. I might be angry to day..but I might be smiling in the next minute..because am human! So I say..appreciate people for who they are..with flaws as well as capabilities. Choose to have that kind of attitude today..and tolerance will no longer be a task for you.
         From Chris Brown’s don’t judge me **it can get ugly, before it gets beautiful**
***MY GOLDEN RULE:whatever makes you sad..leave it. Whatever that makes you happy. .keep it!***
Enjoy life. .its the creator’s gift to you.
           LOVE ALL, SERVE ALL..JUDGE NONE!

PEACE OUT!
                ♥♥♥

Take time to smell the roses♥♥♥

Sharing Quote from Daily Inspiration

I want to share this quote from Daily Inspiration:

“The only person you should try to be better than is the person you were yesterday.”

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If you frequently compare yourself with others, that comparison is not unusual; just not helpful. There will always be someone wealthier, more attractive, more successful, more talented, etc. Seeing yourself as someone who continually strives to become a better person with a goal to improve each day socially, emotionally, mentally and physically as a productive member of society creates a healthier individual. Time to stop comparing and start growing.
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“TEEN LOVE”

I live in the part of the world where having a boyfriend within the teen years is generally considered morally inappropriate. Ironically, the desire to be with the opposite sex is stronger around the teen age period. So I asked myself. .is it really wrong to have a boyfriend or is there more to it?…My cousin, whom I consider my parent, once told me that “I do not have a problem with you having a boyfriend now, but know that if you do go in for one, you risk getting pregnant and or broken hearted.”From that statement, I realised that what our parents sort to do was to protect us from the consequences of having a boyfriend. I do agree to that to some extent. As a growing teen, I have come to the realisation that falling in love as a teen could have terrible consequences. At that stage id like to rather consider the feelings towards the opposite sex as ‘infatuated’..or merely just ‘crushes’. So the possibility of getting heartbroken is really high. I also feel on the other hand, that, for some of us who want to live our lives to the fullest..these age restrictions prevent us from doing so. We don’t get to decide how long we get to live. Some don’t even make it past teenage. Why then should anyone decide for us when to do what? . In that world, if we feel the same way for each other, nothing should prevent us from enjoying being in each others company and being loved by that one person. ..after all, life is too short to risk doing what can be done today for tomorrow. So I narrowed it down to this..For some of us, the decision to remain single throughout the teen years of our lives is based more on consequence than moral conscience. Which means that I personally do not think that its wrong to date at that age..its just a choice to make. As with choices, the consequences must be faced. Am pretty sure though, that given different circumstances such us being born in the other part of the world, I may have decided differently on this issue. Our circumstances do count in the choices we make..but as much as possible, we shouldn’t let them influence the way we live our lives.
       TO A HAPPY LIFE!
**NO REGRETS. …JUST LESSONS! **
Peace out!
….To my imaginary followers, I hope you get real soon..lol.♥

Sharing Quote from Daily Inspiration

I want to share this quote from Daily Inspiration:

“The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the President. You realize that you control your own destiny.”

Albert Ellis – American psychologist, writer (1913-2007)

Wouldn’t it be great if all your years were your best years? We tend to remember our early years as the best. How much of your time do you spend complaining about others, the economy or the government? Once you can distinguish between your and other people’s problems, you have more time to solve your own problems. Useless issues arise when we try to solve other people’s problems rather than tackle our own. Create your own good years; find and solve your own problems. Along the way you can discover life’s golden nuggets; reach out to uplift others as a good steward.
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☆THE START OF A NEW DAY!☆

The start of a new day brings with it hope.No matter how bad you felt going to bed the night before, the start of the morning, the very moment you open your eyes should bring you a sense of hope and gratitude. Most of us think life in general sucks..well if you don’t, then good for you. Either ways I just want to say that am happy to be alive this morning. Am happy to see the beautiful face and hear the hungry voice of my baby boy (haha..my cousins son as a matter of  fact..*babysitting*).. who put me through three hours of hell on earth trying to get him to sleep. He did sleep and even though I slept late and woke up early, I feel great!..its going to be a long day today. I have no idea how am going to get through it, but I know I will.With four kids and the house to manage. .well thats something! (Got an older cousin helping me). I like to feel like superwoman whenever I go through challenging situations..which some will put us ‘problems’..cause I always manage to pull through. I know am strong and even stronger than I think. So am going to go through the day in my royal robe and cape, armour in hand, determination in heart and a successful SMILE on my face. You should too…yeah, SMILE cause you haven’t got all the problems in the world!
Peace out!

*Mentally recite rule seven whenever you’re down or in a really bad mood*..I do and it helps.

**remember to keep the smile on…♥♥♥**