WHAT FRIENDSHIP MEANS TO ME.

And that.Is my idea of what friendship should be like, basically.Friends are a very necessary part of our lifes. They are the family that we get to choose. Yes, you don’t let your friends choose you, you choose them. Letting someone choose you as a friend is peer pressure, not friendship.  Its very true that your friends pretty much show the kind of person you are. We click with people on different levels.  Some we constantly love to hang out with, some we secretly admire, and others..we simply just don’t connect with, so we ‘ignore’. Amongs all these group of people,  we form a bond of friendship . I like to describe it as ‘the unspoken bond’. The kind of bond where deep down, we know that no matter what, we can count on the people we share it with. That is friendship. It is being there for the other person when they need you most. It is setting aside your differences and misunderstandings just to be there for them. Not because you have to, but because you want to. That ‘want’ comes from ‘caring’ and caring, from ‘love’. It is where you learn to put the other persons feelings first. In friendship, there’s no selfishness. There’s no greed. There’s no jealousy. Only love. When we value the other person enough to not want to hurt them, even unintentionally. … When we are willing to forgive all wrongs and to trust even in deceit. …That is love. Friendship is formed from love. I am grateful to God for the people I can call friends. The true ones and the conditional ones. The quality of friendship, lies in how true you are to the other person.  Know who your real friends are…value them. Know who your conditional friends are…love them. Your friends can make or unmake you.
Your power lies only in being able to
choose them wisely.
               From the fault in our stars, a novel by John Green:” you don’t get to choose whether or not you get hurt in life, but you do have some say in who does.
    
   To my friends: I like my choices, I hope you like yours”.
     

TO LOVE♥♥ TO FRIENDSHIP♥♥
                          **Let Love Lead***

         
#count on me, Bruno Mars.
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